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Happy Go Lucky Kinda Stuff! Curious, atheist, lil-bit adventurous, lil-bit rebel, nature lover, sometimes feel like to read and travel. Writing is drug, minute observer, believe in instinct, in awesome profession/academics. Love my people and my pets and love to be surrounded by them.

Saturday, November 26, 2022

Mindset Matters

In last few years, came across some interesting terminology.

Like, wretched earth, cursed land, ruined desserts and many such metaphors revolving around women reproductive life or organs. Maybe even men. Better to give such terminology just one word -- toxicity. 

Toxicity of mind, views, perspective etc. First and most important thing is humans are not mere one pair of chromosome out of 23rd pairs of chromosomes. Not even fully one pair as that one pair also somehow depends on remaining chromosomes pairs. Another, having kids is not just about producing kids. It's much more than that. Like plants, like pets, you can adopt and production factory business is over.

It's not mishappenings or abuses which ruin life. But mindset. Don't allow anyone so much power that, that person can even dare to ruin your life. And that starts from mind. Over from mind, over from life. 

Life is big than some happening/s or mishappening/s. Life goes on even when dearest person in our life leaves this world. I wonder then how people could spoil their whole life to some abuse/s or such abusers? Let the abuse with the abuser. Do not carry it with you. अपना फंडा तो यही है, दुनिया का दुनिया जाने। 

बोल के दिमाग आज़ाद है तेरा, क्यूंकि बाकी ज़ंजीरें तो टूट जाती है, मगर दिमागी ज़ंजीरों से मुक्ति पाना थोड़ा मुश्किल होता है -- जैसे कंगारू कोर्ट्स। 

Tuesday, November 22, 2022

@ 45 What Do You Expect From Life?

Interesting question?

No?

@ 45, I am not expecting miracles from life. But

But I am experiencing some. 

Like?

Miracles of hair colour changes. Natural Indian brown by birth to light brown till M.Sc.

To fashionable Loreal of ash colour, brown colour, light brown colour, burgundy (Which looks red in sun) to burned damaged bhootni white (CoVID atyachar), to back to natural, to bleach, to brown again -- had to due to some function in some dear and near ones rather say kinda enforced by some who did not like that bhootni look.

To come back to natural with some experimentive modes of nutrition and least chemicals uses/abuses. And my hair are turning kinda black, light black, I guess. Did I hear right? Not hear but watching day by day. 

How much nutrition and least use of chemicals can change the texture or colour of hair? To great extent I guess. Experienced. 

It was my kind of experimentation and experience. Now look at people's kinda experimentation and given experiences.

What is your age?

37

Few more years.

What few more years?

Danger zone.

And I could not understand what kinda danger zone, some people were talking about.

Then experienced the same question here or there.

@ 38, 39, 40

It was a bit too interesting @ 40.

Over 

Means?

My periods were over at 40 and blah, blah, blah

I was surprised, what the hell were those questions or talks about and why?

@41, 42

Still your periods are not over? Kind of surprise factor. And I was like periods can be over @42? I started enquiring mother, aunts, some relatives, and online resources.

There were different answers. But 45-50 was the genetic answer. But how does that matter? People like me rather use to think, better if over as early as possible. Monthly headache over. But people had some other kinda headaches, I had started realizing now. 

Rather should say had been abused that way during Psycho Control, September 2018. The injection, I had been given also had hormonal problems along with some others. Though after few months, I was back to normal but commentary of that abuse was at its worse, at times even today. 

Even worse, when I look at some chairs or justice holders of my country talking in 1, 2, 3 etc. language. Natural question comes to mind, who gave these people this right? Do they know what were my protests? What are my views? If not then please go through my written protests. Get off from my personal life. People who abused me in whatever way are my past. I did not carry them along. This dirty politics and so called fighters did, without my knowledge and consent. Or some of them are party to Kangaroo Courts? I don't live there. 

My professional life or anyone's professional life should be away from personal targeting. Someone's professional rights if have been intermixed (for whoever vested interests), then how that person is liable for that? Rather that person suffered due to that, both at personal and professional front. 

It's the same politics which is murderer of common people at this excuse or that excuse -- again without their knowledge or consent.

I do not like people whose lives and talk and walk revolve around gossips or personal lives of other people. What a mockery of intellectual(?) stuff that don't have answers to criminals activities -- people/politics that do planted accidents, operations, deaths, create diseases-psycho among masses, where none exists. 

Even strangest, when I was on that search trail -- "This was the person who did this, this was the person who did that, this was the person responsible for that (side driver seat)". 

Arre? Where were you people, when I was searching for all these questions? Could have informed that even then. Why did not? Means, you people were also at some crime zone or did some? Let's play hide-hide or hide and seek? Now, this person himself was on revealing mode along with some confessions.

We don't expect miracles from life but at times, life throws at us, in strange ways -- digestible or non digestible.

Today's creations







Friday, November 4, 2022

सिस्टम पोषित बीमारियाँ और ईलाज

समाज की दी हुई या सिस्टम पोषित बीमारियाँ और ईलाज 

लोगों को सही जानकारी देने के साथ-साथ, अगर दो चीजें सही हो जाएँ, तो समाज की दी हुई या सिस्टम-पोषित बीमारियों के ईलाज अपने आप हो जाएंगे। 

अच्छी और मुफ्त स्कूल शिक्षा 

ऐसी शिक्षा, जहाँ स्कूल, बच्चों से कुछ लेने की बजाय देते हों। मुफ्त शिक्षा मतलब, मुफ्त ड्रेस, किताबें और खाना भी। Day Boarding Schools । कितना मुश्किल है, अगर सच में कोई गवर्नमेंट करना चाहे तो? प्राइवेट स्कूलों का धंधा बंद और साथ-साथ काफी हद तक गरीबी भी। घर पे बैग ना लाना, ना लेके जाना। कम से कम किताबों का भारी बैग तो बिलकुल नहीं। 

कॉलेज और यूनिवर्सिटी टीचर्स, स्कूलों के साथ मिलकर भी काफी प्रोजेक्ट चला सकते हैं। UGC के प्रमोशन के नंबरों में, अगर कुछ जरूरी हिस्सा, Rural Development पे फोकस हो, तो भी काफी सुधार हो सकता है, गाँवों के स्कूलों में। बजाय की उन नंबरों को पूरा करने के लिए चूहा दौड़ का हिस्सा बन, झूठे डाटा से या पैसे देके पब्लिश करवाने के।   

कॉलेज और यूनिवर्सिटी शिक्षा  

Learn and Earn 

कॉलेज और यूनिवर्सिटी खुद ऐसे प्रोग्राम शुरू करें, जहाँ स्टूडेंट्स पढ़ाई के साथ-साथ कमाई भी करें। 

हॉस्पिटल्स 

अगर हर जिले में कोई अच्छे बड़े सरकारी हॉस्पिटल हों, तो प्राइवेट हॉस्पिटल्स का भी धंधा खत्म। जो शायद ज्यादा जरूरी है। उससे भी ज्यादा जरूरी है, शायद प्राइवेट डायग्नोस्टिक सेंट्र्स को बंध करना। ये और इनका कमीशन दुनियाँ भर की बीमारियाँ हैं।  

सही जानकारी और मूलभूत जरूरतें 

ये काम बड़ी आसानी से कॉलेज, यूनिवर्सिटी, मेडिकल और रिसर्च सेंट्र्स कर सकते हैं, गवर्नमेंट के सहयोग से। मगर, ये सब तो तब होगा ना, जब गवर्नमेंट्स लोगों के पर्सनल स्पेस या ऐसे मिर्च-मसालों से बाहर निकलें। वैसे, सिविल ही क्यों, इन मिर्च-मसालों (झगड़ों या युद्धों?) से बाहर निकल, डिफेन्स भी वो वक़्त और रिसोर्स इधर लगा सकता है। बहुत नहीं हुए, अभी तक युद्ध?