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Happy Go Lucky Kinda Stuff! Curious, atheist, lil-bit adventurous, lil-bit rebel, nature lover, sometimes feel like to read and travel. Writing is drug, minute observer, believe in instinct, in awesome profession/academics. Love my people and my pets and love to be surrounded by them.

Thursday, February 11, 2021

Are You A Part or Party to Abuse?

Check out if you are the solution, justice holder or yourself have become a part or party to abuse, crime, violence, harassment etc.? 

Are you a part or party to some parallel play or game?
What kind of role you are playing there and why?
What kind of words or behaviour you have been asked to play?
Or have you been asked to be a dumb spectator or mute watcher to some crime?
Acting to instigate or support the crime?
Or have been asked to play subtle indirect roles, mirroring something repetitively over some time period? Have you ever thought what kind of inciduous impact those so-called mildly, funnily or not-so-harmful mischivious looking activities could have in the long term? Such mild looking mischifs or activities could be an integral part of some social group or society even without anyone's notice?

Are you holding some responsible chair and trying to expose something? Are you becoming yourself a criminal in that expose or are somehow party to solution? Cannot that expose happen without yourself becoming a criminal in the process? What are your duties? What you can do in your capacity? And what are you doing?

Are you a well wisher? Do gooder? What are you doing for that? And what kind of impact those activities, social work or deeds are having on someone, for whose good you are working? Ever checked what that person think of you or your activities?

Do you even know the person for whose good you are working? What that person think of some topic, subject matter etc., is that match your way of thinking? Is it OK if your deeds or working style become known to that person or to the general public? If the answer is no to such questions then you are not a do-gooder for the concerned person/s but probably more harmful.

Are you talking something indirect when you can talk directly? Are you doing something via someone which you can do yourself? So many such questions are there to ask yourself if something is not going in the intended direction or going totally opposite direction.

I found so-many well meaning, well intentioned people entrapped in such cases, designs, crimes off late. Beware you can be one of them.

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