A try to differentiate between caretakers, well-wishers, family, friends, relatives vs thekedaars:
There is big difference between care takers vs thekedaars.
You will find caring people mostly wherever you need in your day by day routines or occasional tasks, happenings, mishappenings, hurdles while leaving you alone where it needs to be.
While you will find thekedaars everywhere wherever they should not be and mostly nowhere wherever you will need them.
Caretakers would be concerned about your overall growth and well-being then be it personal, professional, social, economic, emotional, physical without any kinda interference.
Thekedaars would be concerned about their own egos and aspirations or targets or justifications without caring about your needs and dreams. They have their own limited version of dos and don'ts like some frogs of a well and highly interfering and disturbing in others lives.
Caretaker people mostly have time for you, to talk, to discuss, to help every possible way.
Thekedaars have limited time like their limited versions of mind. Mostly you will find them wherever they need to fulfill their own egos, targets etc. In general, they have time either to order or how their orders could be executed and targets could be achieved.
Caretaker people know you more as they spend time with you without trying to manipulate and believe in talk or discussion. You can genuinely trust them. They respect your dreams, your needs, your life.
Thekedaars are intrusive every possible wrong and forceful ways. They generally want to know you to manipulate in different ways. They have their own dreams, targets and coercive ways to achieve them.
In general caretakers try to provide a healthy environment for overall development.
Thekedaars live and believe in unhealthy ways.
Caretakers would empower you automatically. Here they do not need to downgrade or danger anyone to make you feel better or confident. Their efforts would be to provide environment for healthy growth.
Tekedaars call unhealthy practices of slavery kinda treatment of people as empowerment. They keep dividing people based on this or that. Their empowerment cannot happen without comparisons with others. They try to enforce even so-called empowerment without providing environment.
These types exist everywhere in personal, professional as well as social sphere and it is not difficult to identify them.
There is big difference between care takers vs thekedaars.
You will find caring people mostly wherever you need in your day by day routines or occasional tasks, happenings, mishappenings, hurdles while leaving you alone where it needs to be.
While you will find thekedaars everywhere wherever they should not be and mostly nowhere wherever you will need them.
Caretakers would be concerned about your overall growth and well-being then be it personal, professional, social, economic, emotional, physical without any kinda interference.
Thekedaars would be concerned about their own egos and aspirations or targets or justifications without caring about your needs and dreams. They have their own limited version of dos and don'ts like some frogs of a well and highly interfering and disturbing in others lives.
Caretaker people mostly have time for you, to talk, to discuss, to help every possible way.
Thekedaars have limited time like their limited versions of mind. Mostly you will find them wherever they need to fulfill their own egos, targets etc. In general, they have time either to order or how their orders could be executed and targets could be achieved.
Caretaker people know you more as they spend time with you without trying to manipulate and believe in talk or discussion. You can genuinely trust them. They respect your dreams, your needs, your life.
Thekedaars are intrusive every possible wrong and forceful ways. They generally want to know you to manipulate in different ways. They have their own dreams, targets and coercive ways to achieve them.
In general caretakers try to provide a healthy environment for overall development.
Thekedaars live and believe in unhealthy ways.
Caretakers would empower you automatically. Here they do not need to downgrade or danger anyone to make you feel better or confident. Their efforts would be to provide environment for healthy growth.
Tekedaars call unhealthy practices of slavery kinda treatment of people as empowerment. They keep dividing people based on this or that. Their empowerment cannot happen without comparisons with others. They try to enforce even so-called empowerment without providing environment.
These types exist everywhere in personal, professional as well as social sphere and it is not difficult to identify them.
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